Lpmhs-SeventySix-Cafe - Discussion - Family or Friend ?

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  Maria Miyake

  Would you rather tell your secrets or open up to a friend or to a family member? Why?
  I invite bloggers to please share your opinion on the said topic/question. There won't be any right or wrong answers, just your opinion.

  
  

• Lpmhs SeventySix Cafe'

  I would rather keep my secrets to myself. Because for me, secrets are made to be found out with time.

  
  

• Rudy Nuevo

  Secret is a secret...why open it up or tell it to others, even to a member of a family?...it' a secret remember?...a secret is a secret no matter what it takes..'cause it's a secret di ba?.. a secret... a secret... a secret..wahhhh iyak na akooo..

  
  

• Maria Miyake

  I just realized na mas masekreto pala talaga ang mga boys. Mas maganda palang mag share ng secrets sa inyo, dahil pag sinabing atin atin lang ito at secret ito ay pwede mong panghawakan...lol. Thanks Mr. Lpmhs SeventySix and thanks Rodolfo for sharing your thoughts about secrets. Anymore opinion anyone would like to share?

  
  

• Lpmhs SeventySix Cafe'

  Thanks Maria....absolutely, you're right na mas masikreto ang mga boys pagdating sa mga secrets. That's why being a secret agent is ideal only for men. Kaya kung may secrets ka, I'll give you 110% assurance na walang makakaalam, puedeng mong i-share sa akin mga secrets mo......my ears are open but my mouth is close. Tama rin si Rudy...secret is a secret....remember, we have a saying that "If you reveal your secrets to the wind you should not blame the wind for revealing them to the trees" .

  
  

• Maria Miyake

  Teka muna Berns...medyo confused ako...sabi mo ay kung sasabihin ko sa iyo ang secret ko ay you will give 110% assurance na walang makakaalam...but then sabi mo rin na tama si Rudy na secret is secret...kapag ini reveal sa wind ay may posibilidad na i reveal nito sa tree...nalilito ako...alin ba talaga?
  Maybe ideal na maging secret agents ang mga guys...but recently, marami na ring lady agents ha....kung secret...di ko alam. Tignan mo ang story nina Mr. and Mrs. Smith...patas hindi ba?...lol

  
  

• Lpmhs SeventySix Cafe'

  hehehehe...na-confused ka ba? I just want to emphasize, not all, but most of the boys ay maaasahan pagdating sa mga secrets kesa sa girls. Kaya nga 110% assurance ang binibigay ko sayo....kapag ako sinabihan mo, it's air-tight...walang makakaalam, ako lang.....even the wind cannot penetrate my mind, my heart and blow my mouth to open and reveal the secrets. Secret is a secret....but, there is always a possibility na malaman ang secret, depende rin kung sino ang keeper or kung sino gustong makalaam, maraming paraan, time will tell, baka yung mismong may secret ang mag-reveal.

  
  

• Maria Miyake

  Well said....thank you for your insight ...will consider the offer....lol
  Magaling ka pala sa mga ganitong discussion ha?
  Tanong lang kita, kung mayroon kang secret na kailangan kang may pagsabihan na isang tao..isang kaibigan or isang ka pamilya, sino ang pipiliin mo at bakit?

  
  

• Lpmhs SeventySix Cafe'

  hahahahaha...bakit ba favorite topic mo ay secret? Mukhang naghahanap ka ng taong pagsasabihan mo ng secret ah....I told you, am here to listen and keep your secret forevermore.
  
  Anyway, sagutin ko na rin, baka ma-qualify ako sa hinahanap mong secret-keeper. Let we do it this way, everyone keeps a secret, right? Walang tao sa mundo na walang secret....kalokohan yon. Kaya nga some of us have friends who we entrust our secrets to. Some have chosen to keep their secrets within themselves. Depende kasi kung anong klaseng secret meron ka.
  
  If we have secrets, some questions popped in our mind, hindi mo naman ididisclose agad, iniisip mo muna yung epekto sayo at sa iba:
  
  1. If you have a secret, will you tell it to one of your friends or some of your
  friends? Or you will choose to keep it to yourself?
  2. If a secret will hurt somebody's feelings, will you choose to tell a friend if it
  concerns him or her?
  3. Must we tell all our secrets to our beloved or to a partner?
  4. Kung hindi mo naman sasabihin ang secret sa iyong loved one or to a partner, are
  you a traitor, or are you not trustworthy?
  
  We are not perfect but we have the desire to be perfect. And being not perfect napipilitan tuloy tayong gumawa ng mga bagay na hindi na natural o normal. These prompt us to hide the ugly part of our lives or deny the terrible incidents in our lives.
  
  For me, there are secrets that need not be told if it will cause heartaches or anguish. If they will cause trouble and chaos, bakit mo pa sasabihin? But on the other hand, it can also depend on what the secrets are all about. If, for example sa Filipino culture natin where virginity is still an issue to some, will a lady tell her love that she is not a virgin anymore? If I am to be asked, the lady should immediately tell her love. Or if for example, a father is so proud of his son and brags about his being a good son all the time, hindi nya alam nagnakaw pala ng pera sa Tita nya one time, does he need to know? If the father has a frail health condition, he need not know. Anyway, everybody commits mistakes. Let him live his life until his time comes. Kaya nga para sa akin, secrets are made to be found out with time!!!

  
  

• Maria Miyake

  Wow....impressed naman talaga ako at nag spend ka ng time para sagutin ang tanong ko, maraming salamat ha?
  Well said, i can't ask for a better explanation than what you just did.
  Thanks for the pointers and for the clarity of your examples.
  Mabuti pa ay mag-open na ako ng ibang topic para mayroon naman tayong bagong pag-usapan. TY ulit ha. Have a nice week-end!

  
  

• Lpmhs SeventySix Cafe'

  Thank you so much Chat. Yeah, mabuti pa nga......usap na lang tayo sa secret mo.....hehehehe, joke. Have a nice week-end too...take care...bye.

  
  

• Leony Eusebio

  Very well said Kuya!..sayang di ako nakaabot sa discussion. Next topic nalang..kung kaya kong sagutin..hehehe. Have a nice week-end po!

  
  

• Lpmhs SeventySix Cafe'

  Thank you Leony...next topic ni Ate mo sali ka....it's better to get involve in a healty discussion like this.....sabi nga nya, no right or wrong answers, just your opinion.

  
  

• Rudy Nuevo

  YES!..am always present sisters&bro.as a matter of fact i want to say something more...but i was amaze on Prof.Bernie's words of opinion.Kaya lang close na e..SO another topic tayo.Medyo mapurol na ang utak ko e kaya i have to sharpen it.By the way bro.,naputol ang balitaan natin a..
  
  Thanks Chat for ur efforts & ideas para sa mga ganitong pamamaraan ng pakikipagtalastasan sa ating mga batchmates.And ofcourse to you bro. Bernie for being the founder of saga '76 cafe'.Galing u guys!

  
  

• Maria Miyake

  Hi Rudy....mayroon na tayong bagong topic....iyong tungkol sa favorite hoilday...please check it out...and thanks for sharing....Have a nice day/evening!

  
  

• Lpmhs SeventySix Cafe'

  Thanks bro. Rudy......we're happy and very thankful na open ka rin for this kind of discussion....we appreciated it very much bro....hanggat may opinion and reaction this topic is not yet closed. Everybody is welcome to share.